When is the right time to downsize and move?

Downsizing and selling the family home can be one of the most difficult processes older adults have to go through. Usually this decision is made when the senior no longer wants - or is unable - to maintain his current home. Sometimes the decision is related to failing health.  Sometimes it is a desire to simplify their lifestyle so they have more time to do other things. Sometimes they are feeling lonely and isolated and want to live in an environment with more social interaction.

A move will involve a change in living arrangements. They may choose to buy another home in an adult lifestyle community or in a condo apartment building.  They may decide to rent rather than own their next home.  They may want to move into a retirement or assisted living residence.   

It is better for seniors if they can make the decision to downsize and move while they are still healthy and have the time to plan their move and the energy to act on their decision. If they wait until they MUST move, they reduce the housing choices available to them.  They also face time pressures and are forced to make decisions under stress.    

For most seniors, the decision to downsize and move is made after a lengthy process of thinking and talking about the good and the challenging aspects of their current living arrangements.  Following are some questions that may help you evaluate your situation, needs and preferences. 
Answer the questions for yourself, and discuss them with your family and/or trusted friends.

• Does the house feel too big for me now? 
• Does it make sense to keep the house when I don’t use all the space in the house and yard?
• Am I still able to deal with the upkeep of the house and yard—and do I want to?
• Does it make sense to spend what it takes to upkeep this house, when I could live more simply somewhere else?
• Do I have family members, neighbours, friends to help me with chores, transportation and personal care when I need it?  Am I comfortable accepting this help?
• Do I feel secure in the house and neighbourhood?
• Do I feel isolated and wanting more social interaction?
• Do I need to have some level of services provided to me, like meals, housekeeping, social activities, transportation, daily living (eg medication, bathing, dressing)
• If I moved, what type of living quarters would I like to have? (apartment, small bungalow, seniors residence)
• Do I want to own my next home, or would I prefer to rent something and let other people deal with property management?
• What kind of services would it be important to have nearby (eg bus service, grocery store, doctor, church, bank, etc)
• Do I have family or friends who can help me with the downsizing and move?
• What are the good reasons to move?
• What are the reasons NOT to move?
• How do my family and trusted friends feel about me downsizing and moving?
• If I decide to stay in my home, what community & business services are available to help me?

If you are staying in your home because you don't have anyone to help you with the downsizing, there are very good companies who can work with you.  One of my services is to co-ordinate with other transition specialists to assist my clients who need help with downsizing and preparing their homes for sale. Don't hesitate to ask for help.  Call Emma (613-795-6891) for a no obligation consultation about your needs, plans and options.